Well it all started when I was dismissed from university in December 2005. My mom was far away and seemed did not care much for me, my health state was terrible and my financial situation urged for improvement. As far as I could not pay for my studies anymore – I was dismissed. I was deeply sad and there were not seen any slightest light in the end of the tunnel. I decided started looking for a job, but since I was ill I was staying at home on money my father sent me (it happened from time to time when he remembered he has a daughter. So I was deeply depressed, ill and I urgently needed a loving shoulder to cry on, but I hate the thought about seeing any of people who surrounded me when everything was well and I was just a spoiled daughter of wealthy parents. I was sitting in a flat in the centre of Kiev ( the one bought to me by my parents during their last awareness about my existence) and searching the net trying to find at least somebody who could willingly (or unwillingly) listen to my awful story about how life could be unjust.
So I logged in on the several singles sites where I was a member and started chatting. It was around the midnight when the pop up window with Private Talk popped up on luckylovers dating site and that was the first time I met Jeff. He told he found me on the list of those who were online and contacted me, but then something with electricity happen and I the connection was broken. After an hour or so, I was online again and I tried to find him. He was in the list of those who has recently viewed my profile so I found him easily. He was still online, he later told me that was waiting and hoping I would appear sooner or later. Well, Jeff is rather self-confident, the feature I really like in people. He also told me that he was trying to contact me before and without any results. I must admit there were some cases I left my computer when I was logged in and then only closed the windows of Private Talk which popped up when I was away.
Soon we were chatting away talking about small things, and then he said that he had to go to bed, as it was almost morning in the USA. It was late evening where I was and I still had nothing to do and I really regretted he had to go as I started enjoying the conversation. So again and again I was waiting for him and we chatting for hours, I even put ”do not disturb” sign to prevent anybody contacting me anymore. At least when we were speaking…
I trusted him so much and he pushed me to get back to the University, I had to pay for my studies at this time but he convinced me that this way is the best one, he even helped me with my individual works on literature and that eventually brought more subjects to be discussed.
The summer break was coming up for me from college, so we thought it would be a good time for us to hop on a plane and at least meet each other. We decided to do this in the third country, Bulgaria. I told my folks that I was going to Bulgaria for the summer break, and they really did not like the idea of me staying with somebody I had met on the internet, there was a big argument there, but they didn't stop me from going.
The last is history as they say, but the most wonderful history possible as I am living in the USA and we are waiting a child. Nelya and Jeff.
