" ... An idea of internet dating was wondering in my head since the town I live is not very big and I was often too busy at work to be able to meet new people.
Ok, I used this dating site and I saw his profile and decided to contact him. After two weeks i received a short respond from him. Short, brief thank you reply and that’s all, I thought he was too polite not to answer at all, but not interested really. It was by chance that we met online, we just apparently logged in at the same time! Amour shot his arrow!!! We spent our time chatting right away… and it was far more than 3 hours. Later on we exchanged couple of emails and our pictures too (neither his nor mine profile have them from the very beginning). On our 4th mail we exchanged our contact numbers and we started calling each other, emailing, chatting, text messages, snail mail. We used all possible ways of correspondence, although he is in Denver, USA and me in Kazakhstan, actually we kept in touch in every possible way. Soon we began to like and miss each other so much that could not spend a day without each other and i knew for sure that he is the man i have been waiting for.
Finally we decided to meet in person. I told my family about him and he told his family about me, but we still have to wait for some time. Ok, it was all pretty difficult to explain everything to my parents, they were not ready to accept such kind of relationships and they were really suspicious. Sometimes their suspicions passed to me and it were the moments of despair, but his only call or single mail calmed me down and everything became clear and evident by itself. All negative thoughts disappeared at the same moment.
It happened so that at that moment his close friend was flying to Kazakhstan on business and he decided not to wait till summer and follow him. I took a short vacation for 5 days and flew down to see him at my friend's place in Astana. So we met ...and the rest is history. I came back and we informed both our families. His family could not come for a proposal as mine wanted but we settled this down and they accepted him alone, lol. Ok, he arrived again in three months for a formal proposal and it was definitely accepted.
So we are engaged and now we are finalising our marriage dates and all this paper work and we can't wait to be together as real husband and wife soon. I understand that a long way is ahead and it is so difficult to be separate when you are already one being, but I am happy and thankful to ALLAH for allowing me to meet such a wonderful, understanding and a lovely man. I believed strongly that sincerity is the key to a success and all our efforts will be rewarded shortly....
Adia and Kent. "
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