nothing personal, just dating?

My name is Terry McAllen, I’m from Ireland and here is my internet dating love story. I did not have any problems with my personal life and there were always a lot of girls around. But at the same time there was always a feeling of loneliness as well. So after some time I found the way to solve my problem with the help of the internet. I was parting and having fun as before but I had some rather serious conversations with the people (girls mostly from all over the world) through the net. Actually now I'm feeling that more and more people are starting to meet each other over the internet and make the connections which make them fuller. And I pity those who have so narrow choice for the soul mates years ago. I never net anybody interesting to me in the bar or disco, so how they did manage that???

All that makes me wonder if my story is that unique I think it is. I know there are many other stories like mine but I decided to share it with you, because even being alike all case is personal and only one possible.

I have been looking for my special someone since I was 28 years old. I got the feeling I need a girlfriend and mate rather early and that is why I was rather a guy to mock at while all my mates were rather satisfied with what they had.

After years and years of unsuccessful searching I decided to give international dating sites a try. I registered on a few of them and well, it was an overwhelming success. I got so many letters from here and there that I even did not care about answering all of them – now I would act differently, by the way.

Elisabeth whom I met on luckylovers was the most stubborn of them all from the very beginning. She sent me so many letters sometimes with nothing but a smile there, that I did not value those letters so much (so sad I did not keep all of them, because of my carelessness, if only I knew). I was flirting with many girls everywhere, but she was also the one who would always tell me she didn't want to date but rather be friends. And then in a while she stopped writing and after a week or so I’ve got the feeling I miss her stupid cards and just smiles, but the most terrible thing was that I did not knew anything about her, I mean we did not exchange our e-mail addresses or phone numbers....no way possible was left to contact her outside luckylovers. And here it all started, every time I logged in I checked her profile but it was not active anymore, she did not logged in and that was all. You would not believe the world crashed to me when once I saw her online, I wrote her warm letter and guess what….she did not answered…she was often on the site, but made her profile unavailable for private talk and did not answer my letters. That was all so sad, nobody existed there since that time only she… my beautiful Ukrainian dream who kept silence.

I started thinking this all over and understood that from the very beginning I knew I had found someone very special but she was always so close and always ready to chat that I could not even thing she is possible to get lost.
So I was sitting the whole Saturday evening and typing a long letter of mine about this all (I even did not know whether she would read it) but it ended up with the words: Will you marry me?
And I got the answer with a short word “Yes” only!!! In an instant your whole world is turned completely upside down. Have you ever seen a monkey dance? If yes, you can easily imagine me doing the same. I print this Yes in huge letters and hang it on the wall. Then I asked her all her contacts to be sure I will never lose her anymore.

We met in person in three months in Odessa and….we never were aside since that. Yea, our physical bodies were apart for some time but she lives in my soul and will be living there ever after. And from December she lives not only in my soul, but in my house also))

Best Whishes to all,
Terry and Elisabeth McAllen